Dealing With Human Leeches

The clock is ticking everyone. Jesus is on his way back for the faithful and those who are preparing for the coming of Christ Jesus. I once read that 100% of people that are born experience rejection by God. Until we accept the Lord as our personal Saviour. Therefore, a void and sense of emptiness fills our soul that only God can fill. And will open doors for evil spirits of human leeches to enter your life when God is not the foundation of your living.

During our journey we fill the voids in our lives with lust of the eye, lust of the flesh and the cares of life. On top of that you invite a thief, betrayer, leech, decisive person and desperate people that God does not approve.

This blog is directly linked to my e-book you may want to read which was created as a supplemental resource to assist individuals’ personal emotional needs dealing with human leeches. You can find more information about my eBook here. The e-book is a resource to assist individuals as they work through each component of identifying different types of leeches attached to their lives.

Volume 2 will provide ways to react to the 5 leeches. The workbook is one of the many resources that individuals and therapists can use in helping clients identify threats to their client’s well-being. Whether it be family, friends, spouse, bosses, leaders, parents, etc. This workbook intends to provide a helpful framework to cover each component of methods to sharpen your width when interacting with people who don’t have your best interest at hand So, relax and learn more about ways to improve the choices you make before inviting anyone else into your life.

Ask yourself this question: How did I get in trouble with human leeches. Was it rejection, desperation, worldly desires or from not paying attention to the signs people around me displayed when I was in denial not wanting to accept the truth? Research states that the more you are rejected the more you become obsessed to be accepted which leads to codependency.

Wisdom Tip

When you know the bible and learn how to hear the voice of God. You always have an advantage over human leeches. Christ taught us that we cannot afford to be consumed by the cares of this world.  The cares of this government will control and shape your emotions to become systemically desensitized to wrongdoing until you agree or water down the righteousness in your soul into carnality.

We all have to live in a world around good and bad people. That’s true! But you don’t have to be like them. Also, if not careful, police brutality, COVID, unemployment and oppression will wrestle and wear you down until you say Uncle, or I give in to this vicious world system. Don’t do it because it’s not worth it. Because the clock is ticking!

This world system consists of human leeches waiting to control, shape your emotions & thought life so that you become a dysfunctional and disorderly human being. This is why it’s so easy for human leeches to disguise themselves as a friend before we even accept Christ as our Lifetime friend. You have no time to waste on deceivers. Because the clock is ticking!

• They may appeal to your needs but not have a heart for true companionship. While God always appeal to your needs and make a connection with you so you can learn how to BE like Christ.

God is decluttering the space of your soul so you can accurately prepare for what’s to come.

• You don’t need any more faith you just need to get rid of your unbelief and all the extra people you call your friends THAT God MIGHT be identifying as your enemies.
• You may not need to add more people in your life, you may just need to replace the unproductive ones that behave like human leeches.

Ask Yourself This Question: Am I adding value to others without them adding value to me?

Signs: Let’s do the math—If you always walk away feeling worse when you interact with certain people. They may not be a God sent friend. Ask yourself, what am I’m building with this person or what are they destroying in my life?

We try to place tools into the hands of leadership to help them guide others into a mindset of excellence. So that you are blessed and so are they.

Question: How did you get in trouble with human leeches. Are you the problem or them?

This is a good read to help you visualize why you deserve to break away and remove human leeches from your life.

Do you experience shortcomings because you are overfriendly, have an immense propensity to be needed, guilty of being a  people pleaser, guilty of having an unmanageable mercy gift not submitted to God, seeking affirmation in all the wrong places, and believing you can help anyone at any given time without consulting God first. Dealing with human leeches will change your life and set you back.

Wisdom Tips

Close all portals in your life by fasting and praying cancel soul ties with unhealthy relationships. Because the clock is ticking!

The Bible says the enemy seeks who he may devour. He needs access to enter through human portals.

Examples of Open Portals:

• If a person has a need to be accepted. This can become an open portal…
• If you need to be needed….
• If you are a people pleaser…
• If you suffer from rejection…

Techniques: Make it difficult to attract human leeches.

• Guard your heart
• Keep your soul clean
• Personal prayer builds your relationship with God
• Don’t be a river-bank where streams of bitterness flow

Close all portals where sin enters through………….

• The lust of the eye, lust of the flesh, cares of the world. Overly friendly.

Close Every Portal

The enemy didn’t attack Job because he was weak. He attacked Job because God was pleased.

The enemy is not attacking you because you are weak, the enemy entered your life so he could make you weak. But Jesus said when the enemy comes, he has nothing in me. And you should be repeating what Jesus said so you can receive Godly results.

If you close those human and emotional portals, God will open the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing you don’t have room enough to receive. Dealing with human leeches and being deceived by them will cause you to miss your blessings.

Exercise:

Close your eyes for a moment and write down your strengths that help you reach your personal goals,

• While you have your eyes closed–Write down your weaknesses — things or people that prevented you from achieving your goals last time.

House Cleaning Tips:

Make new adjustments, do a soul reconstruction, correct your errors, don’t live in your weaknesses, and replace things in your soul that doesn’t glorify God.

So, when the enemy comes back you can now say. like Jesus, the enemy has nothing in me.

Heads Up:

RIGHT while you were ABOUT to cross over into your promise land!

Who stopped you last time? How did they stop you? Did they offend you? Did they make you bitter? Did they distract you by playing you to close –RIGHT while you were ABOUT to cross over, they held your feet back by walking in front of like the enemy does rather than walk beside you like the holy ghost.

Don’t allow people to keep you in the dark by asking questions that cause you to experience self-doubt about yourself because they are insecure and intimidating. Pray against the spirit of intimidation and wondering mind that make you feel confused because people around you are human leeches and not trying to help you follow the holy spirit but follow their wicked spirit.

When the enemy is in front of you, he will guide you away from your promise land. But when God is inside of you, He will guide you into your promise land. You will not go wrong if you make sure that you and the Holy Spirit are the Gatekeepers of your soul. Because the clock is ticking!

It’s so important that we soul search to develop a pure heart that leads to us flying high like an eagle but having a heart that’s pure and clean like holy water anointed by the Holy Spirit.

Let’s Do Some Soul Cleaning

Strategy:

• Fast often, pray often, separate yourself from human leeches…
• Don’t make room for the enemy….
• Study books on how to control your emotions…
• Study the word and soak in it often…

When you meet people for the first time or invite people into your life. Before you are too quick to invite the enemy. Ask the Lord this one question:

• Is this part of my ministry or will this person become my misery? Because you are only called to be in covenant with God and people who God assign to your life. Not the ones you randomly choose out of bad judgment.
• Ex. Eve invited the serpent, Samson invited Delilah and look what happened to them.

Always ask yourself, am I about to invite Ministry or Misery. And the lord will answer you back. Because the clock is ticking.

• Because –as you see with Eve & Samson—The Leech stole their souls and their relationships with God.

Human Leeches wear disguises outwardly but inwardly they are human leeches who are never satisfied.

Proverbs 30:15-17 “The leech has two daughters.  ‘Give! Give!’ they cry. “There are three things that are never satisfied, that never say, ‘Enough!’:
¹⁶ the grave, the barren womb, land, which is never satisfied with water, and fire, which never says, ‘Enough!’

Quote: If you want to keep your peace and a pure heart? Invite the Holy Spirit before you invite the spirit of the human leech into your life.

Prayer: Help me lord Jesus not to be deceived. Even when I think I know my way. Dear Jesus, help me make my way prosperous by giving me wisdom, discernment and a pure heart so that it is easier to see my way. In Jesus name. Amen